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February 21, 2013 by Anya 25 Comments

Healing our Children.

Children are awesomely susceptible.   They’re fantastic to work with – open-hearted, open-minded and open energetically.

They all have their ups and downs, like adults do too, emotionally and physically.

The only thing about getting older and having less energy is that we become more ‘blocked.’  We don’t really have less energy at all – it just becomes ‘stuck’ over the years.

Having worked with babies, ladies in their nineties and literally hundreds of people in between I can testify to how energy flow changes.  It becomes less efficient, but it’s still there.

As one clears blocks and stuck ‘stuff,’ the body’s energy works on a basic dam principle – clearing debris and emotions, flushing through toxins, becoming stronger as it gathers momentum.

Children are perfect examples of vitality.  It’s a shame to watch it fade, but if you think of a teenager, many of them lack that then.   Many don’t, also.

Some old people are full of it still.  I guess it’s not only what life deals you, but what you make of it – how you perceive it, how you cope.

One thing is for sure – everyone has a story.

Children live theirs for the day.  They live in the moment.  They are glorious in their full capacity to love, laugh and grasp life, dangerously and fearlessly for now. Later, they will be more wise, throw caution to the wind rarely and so be it.

Those who came to me – brought to me my their parents in my Healing Practice – would generally be doing so as a last resort, but I found them easy to help – so responsive, so quick to look inside to see what was going on, such fun!

There was an adopted trio, once, for example, with a troublesome middle child who had so much energy he basically ruined their family life.  When we ‘tuned in’ to see what was going on – he was very clear about what he could see and was quite disturbed by it.  We shut down his energy wheels (also known as ‘Chakras’) – he described them perfectly to me – like no-one else ever has in all my twenty years, he balanced them himself with breathing – just with a little intuitive guidance from me – yet I was totally led by him – and he sort of re-set them.

There was a vast improvement from then onwards, according their adoptive mum.   Just one more visit followed and, with the tools he needed within himself, plus the confidence to use them, he was much more settled and they were able to go on and lead lives as a normal, happy family unit.

He was eight.   He taught me.

The Loving Parent  writes a wonderful post HERE – do give it a read – about spontaneously ‘doing an accidental meditation’ with her son, Toby, when he complained of stomach cramps.  She just followed her intuition and he responded easily, without the battle of wills that can commonly be the case with grown ups and he said it helped him.   What a truly amazing gift to give him for life and what a brilliantly empowering experience for her!

My children see colours in their minds eyes sometimes.  I encourage them to be quiet and just wait for them (I’ll try anything that’ll keep them still for a while, especially before bed or first thing in the morning!) and, chalk and cheese that they are, they share their different blues, greens, pinks, oranges and silvers, or whatever comes to them at that particular moment, really quite enthusiastically- almost competitively.

The youngest (nearly four) has started to point out ‘spiders’ he can see, which no-one else can and I think they must be energetic clusters of some sort, a bit like invisible ‘cobwebs’ you can sometimes feel and my eldest (almost eight, but co-incidentally – ? –  nearly four at the time) could feel my labour pains approaching the birth of his younger brother.  Poor him!

Or perhaps not?  Is this is something we all have and can we hold onto it, if only we know how to retain that openness?  And is it possible to remain vital / re-gain our vitality?

What’s your story?  What do your children teach you?

 

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Filed Under: Breathing, Children, Healing, Relaxation / Meditation Tagged With: chakras, colour meditation, healing, healing children, meditation, the loving parent

Comments

  1. Kate Takes 5 (@KateTakes5) says

    February 21, 2013 at 10:34 am

    I found this so interesting. I certainly don’t give enough credit to my kids intuitive ways – so much of life is about stifling them to conform to how you as a parent are feeling. I’ll be trying to tap into their energy more after reading this. Great post. x

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    • Anya says

      February 21, 2013 at 10:40 am

      Thank you Kate – you’re so right, and so are they, often, when we give them the opportunity!

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  2. Annie says

    February 21, 2013 at 4:40 pm

    I’ve never thought about this before Anya – thank you x

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    • Anya says

      February 21, 2013 at 8:37 pm

      So glad to have got you thinking – that’s my job! You’re welcome xx

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    • Claire says

      February 22, 2013 at 8:19 am

      Such a useful and beautiful post, Anya. Just what I needed to read this week.

      I have wrote my response and personal experience here http://evans-crittens.blogspot.co.uk/2013/02/healing-children-healing-danny.html.

      Sorry I have “replied”, the comment box didn’t show on my old, slow computer.

      with many thanks,

      Claire

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  3. Claire says

    February 22, 2013 at 10:30 am

    Hello Anya,

    Sorry my laptop was playing up yesterday and this morning and wouldn’t let me comment on your blog. I have turned it off and on countless times and T LAST it is letting me comment!

    Here is the post about healing Danny, that I wrote in response to this post.

    http://evans-crittens.blogspot.co.uk/2013/02/healing-children-healing-danny.html

    It couldn’t have popped into my Blog list at a better time.

    Thank you, Anya!

    love

    Claire
    x

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    • Anya says

      February 22, 2013 at 11:01 am

      That’s an excellent post, thank you Claire. I wish you well in all of your recovery – poor little Danny – and have commented xx

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    • Anya says

      February 22, 2013 at 11:03 am

      No – you’re in – didn’t like to edit – perhaps you’re underlining the message! So glad the timing is right! xx

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  4. Mummy Whisperer says

    February 22, 2013 at 12:13 pm

    Lovely Anya, what I like the most about your posts is that you seem to have a knack of connecting people.

    My kids have been greater teachers than any of the spiritual/esoteric teachers I’ve studied over the years; like my own little spirit guides packed into bodies that create chaos/joy in my life all at the same time ;o)

    I remember working on a teenager once who was a real ‘problem child’ with the typical ‘ugh’ response to all my questions. After the healing session she was a totally different person, responsive and communicative in a way I’d never seen her. It was a reminder to me of how tough it is to be a teen and have their brains scrambled for a few years.

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    • Anya says

      February 22, 2013 at 6:44 pm

      Thank you very much Lisa – I’m astounded at the feedback on here – although I should know better! I knew it would come, but am always surprised at how and from whom and where! Thank you for your incredible support. Children are such great healers themselves – if only we would allow them to be! xx

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  5. Ninja cat says

    February 22, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    It’s true my son has taught me so much . From when he first learnt to speak at 3 because of his glue ear problems.

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    • Anya says

      February 23, 2013 at 1:09 pm

      That’s interesting – I would love you to write about that for us?

      Reply
  6. Funky Wellies says

    February 25, 2013 at 8:40 pm

    Open-hearted, open-minded and open energetically: You totally described my second daughter.
    I cannot wait for spring to arrive so we can resume our trips to our “special place” in the forest, where we share so much. xx

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    • Anya says

      February 25, 2013 at 10:16 pm

      The words just sort of come – I can’t really take any credit for them, but I am so glad they resonate with you. Spring is nearly here. If there’s anything you or she can share here, please do so xx.

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  7. Lorraine (Gin & Cornflakes) says

    March 12, 2013 at 11:10 am

    Great post. I get the chakras thing as I am a reflexologist (by night, lawyer by day – appreciate weird combo) and I too have seen so many people who are ‘blocked’ – that is the perfect way of looking at it. I delight in seeing my LO just completely free at the moment and will work on that always being the case 🙂 x

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    • Anya says

      March 12, 2013 at 12:02 pm

      What a great combination of occupations! I love that left brained / right brained thing – think you might have just inspired a particular post! Lovely about your litte one! 🙂

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  8. Narrowboat Wife says

    March 12, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    I liked the thought of wandering into an ‘accidental meditation’ to ease stomach pains. I’m guilty of thinking there’s nothing I can do about those (I’m not going to give Calpol everytime someone mentions tummy ache). But this has made me realise she might simply appreciate us sitting and having some quiet time together.

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    • Anya says

      March 12, 2013 at 2:47 pm

      We’re not taught to be this aware and it is a problem in our culture. The health of the nation could be very different if we were brought up to take responsibility for it and to use our intution and own healing abilities!

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  9. Laura@myinternalworld says

    April 3, 2013 at 8:42 pm

    Lovely post. It’s great to read other people living the healing life with their kids.

    I am a healer but have not been practising for a while.

    One day, a while back, my then 18 month old girl was resting with me on the sofa close to bedtime. She took my hands and placed them on her stomach. My hands instantly turned ‘on’. She did this two nights in a row.

    On te third night I wanted to sit down and do it again but she pushed me away. It was as if she were full. How sweet!

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    • Anya says

      April 7, 2013 at 8:37 pm

      Hi Laura, How wonderful to meet another Healer – thank you for saying hello. I think our children need all energy when they’re little! I am only just returning to this work properly now my youngest is starting school in September, so no doubt you’ll get the calling again when it’s time! It’s great to see that about your daughter – they can teach us so much! 🙂

      Reply

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